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I easily become confused whenever I need to talk about me, because my thoughts are redirected to the old paradox of identity "Who am I?''. It is true that anybody in this world will not give you much information about me other than their perception of me. However, when starting to talk about me, I, the spokesman, because of my values, quality perceptions and the limits of my power of observation and other factors, I tend to select or eliminate a lot of issues related to me in my speech about myself. Therefore, for a long time I kept questioning myself: what does indeed remain of the subject of ''me''?
On the other hand, I found out that most of world seems to share the same theme or craving. If you are offered the opportunity, people usually talk about themselves with a surprising “honesty”. They say, for example, "I am so honest and open, so close to others" or "I'm the kind of guy who feels emotional pain and I can’t always bear the weight of an impact" or "I can easily read the desires of others”. And yet, not a few times, I met people who say that are sensitive and easily hurtable, but they, in turn, hurt other people as well, who seemed to be really honest they used various excuses for it. I met enough of these specimens and who could feel what’s inside the ''heart'' of others, but enjoyed the compliments and insincere compliments. Yet, how well de we really know ourselves in the reality?
As I think more about it, I became more reserved when I’m supposed to describe myself. First, I wish to study more the objective reality, setting aside the opinions of my acquaintances. So, I think, I should focus more on analysing thoroughly other’s opinions and believe more in myself rather than saddening myself because someone doesn’t appreciate me, although continuing to regard such opinions because I think it may help me succeed in a more objective perspective about myself.
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